The CEMA WILL work for you simply because you are human and have a desire to understand yourself better.  Age, gender, and cultural background are factored into the assessment process by default.  The CEMA works on the presupposition our brains are hard wired, by intelligent design, to first survive, or self-preserve.  Many people experience a "normalized" stunted emotional growth and have not progressed proportionally in their life.   In fact, our early relationship dynamics with primary care givers and emotional attunement have incredible influence on our the development of our emotional intelligence and our ability to bond with self and others.  Your lifestyle and relational patterns, as well as your cognitive thought processes will be discernible with The CEMA to give a clear picture of why you do what you do like pieces of a puzzle coming together.

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About the Comprehensive emotional memory assessment

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Frequent questions

Comprehensive Emotional Memory Assessment

The Comprehensive Emotional Memory Assessment (CEMA) was created by Travis S. Gray, a mental health counselor and addiction professional who personally, theoretically, and professionally understands the undeniable and life-altering power of attachment, relational safety, and family of origin dynamics.


His career in mental health led him to work with a wide variety of populations: juveniles with behavioral issues, substance abuse / chemical addiction, dual diagnosis, and dysfunctional family dynamics; all from diverse cultural backgrounds and demographics.  Travis has observed the reoccurring commonality in such contrast populations: the need for relational safety and healthy attachments.  He has utilized his exposure to various cultures during his world travels in active military service, real life experiences, wide variations of work opportunities, and most of all, his personal experiences with insecure attachment that fueled his desire to have a deeper understanding of himself and others. 


The CEMA was born out of a untiring resolve to understand the human psyche and the various influences that mold who we are.   This diagnostic tool operates on the most rudimentary principal that we are essentially relational beings.  Inherent in the heart of every man, woman, and child lies the fundamental need for Truth, context, identity, purpose, hope, security and emotional coaching. The assessment works by evaluating the ways that we interact with the world around us and how we perceive others and ourselves, all of which is filtered through our schema and emotional memory.   

This diagnostic tool is designed to measure 10 different dimensions of how you perceive yourself, others, and the world around you by:

-Analyzing how and why you relate to others and yourself the way you do.                                           

-Determining why certain emotions are difficult, overwhelming, avoided, or create a feeling of indifference.

-Helping you understand why you feel stuck or hit an invisible wall and you cannot leave bad relationships or jobs.  

-Illuminating the ways you continue to re-create emotional pain (usually unconsciously or unintentionally).

-Explaining the contributing factors to the feelings of emptiness, discontentment, anger/rage, and anxiety or depression.

-Providing you with the understanding of why you or loved ones have not been able to escape the clutches of addiction (and cross-addictions) in its various forms.

-Clarifying why you sabotage success, opportunities, and relationships.

-Learning why you have so much difficulty asking for help or receiving love/compliments from others.

-Assessing the possible impacts of both overt and covert trauma and how those effect you toady.

Q: How much does the Assessment cost?

A: The self-awareness and information this assessment provides is invaluable with potential to change your life.  For the promotion price of $250.00 (USD) plus applicable sales tax, you will have the answers you are looking for by the end of one phone call.  Imagine for the average costs of 2 therapy sessions or not eating out once a week for one month, you will have an invaluable understanding of your relational needs and how you may be misunderstood or misunderstanding others.



Q: Is the assessment covered by my insurance?

A: Unfortunately no.  Due to licensure restrictions, only Florida residents are eligible to receive a session receipt that they must submit to their insurance company out of network policy. 



Q: Is the assessment an actual therapy session?

A: The CEMA is not a therapy session, but a diagnostic tool that will be interpreted via a live phone call.  Do to existing interstate laws and licensure restrictions, the diagnostic clinician has no intention of, and is not permitted to form a therapeutic relationship with you upon completion of your assessment.



Q: Will I receive a written copy of my assessment?

A: Yes, you will receive an email with a summary of your assessment via a secure format for confidentiality purposes.  This summary will be available to you within 24 hours from the time of your call.



Q: Once I get the results from my CEMA, what am I suppose to do with it?

A: When you receive your summary, it is your property and you are able to take that information to a local licensed therapist or helping professional of your choice to begin working on the issues based upon your preferences.



Q: Is there anything that would make the assessment not work?

A: There are only a few criteria that would invalidate the assessment.  If you are suffering from a psychotic or delusional disorder (Without being stabilized on medication) or severely incapacitated (cognitively).  Most importantly is that you can verbalize events as you perceived them. 



Q: Can I do the assessment in person?

A: Yes. Face to face interviews are always available if you live in, or are willing to travel to the south Florida area.  Please indicate those requests in your contact email.



Q: Why is it necessary to provide my personal information before doing the assessment?

A: As a mandated reporter, any case of active child or elder abuse, as well as suicidal ideation or intent to harm someone else must be reported to local agencies if disclosed during the assessment. Your information is protected and confidential and will never be shared with a 3rd party without your direct consent to do so.



Q: How old do I have to be do the assessment?

A: Due to variation of state laws, all participants must be 18 years or older.  If you are the parent or legal guardian of a minor that you would like to participate in the assessment, you must sign a parental consent form.  Contact me for more details.